Leap Year Friday, February 29, 2008
Leap!
Leap Year Wednesday, February 27, 2008
A Visit to School
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
Brain Freeze
I've mentioned Jack Frost here before I believe? Like that old boy friend that you just can't seem to kick out of your life... he just keeps coming back! He gets under your skin, causes you no end of irritation, chills you to the bone, and you just wish he'd go away for good.
But every once in a while you see a flash of what drew you to him to begin with. The beauty of what he could do if he'd just stick with what he's good at. The complexity of him, they way he could pull you in...
Remember: there is a reason your not with him anymore.
Frost Bites!
Monday, February 25, 2008
From Here to There
I start out by driving through one of the Cleveland Metro Parks on Euclid Creek Parkway. What a beautiful place! Lots of trees, deep ravines and rock structure, wildlife, and of course the creek itself.
Early on when I was dating my husband, we came here and he showed Ian how to carefully hunt for salamanders under the rocks (just to look at them, and not disturb them!) and we tried to skip stones.
Since it is a park, there are often walkers and joggers on the path. I am blessed that almost every day I get to see the person I call "the waving guy." As he runs, he waves at every vehicle that goes by. I always look forward to seeing him and wave back every time - I often wonder if others wave back as well. His simple gesture of kindness and friendship puts me in the right frame of mind to approach the next leg of my journey...
...into the abyss! Here we are on the triumph of civil engineering, the spacious Cleveland Memorial Shoreway. Four lanes of bumper to bumper, door to door, fun and games! Sometimes people wave here - it's just what finger they are waving!
After facing the gauntlet for a bit, I am fortunate once again to see something amazing. One of America's finest natural wonders: Lake Erie, one of our Great Lakes! It's a bit freezy here in this shot, but in the Summer it is glorious!
Then the "Big City" arises in my windsheild. I love living near the city. As much as I love being near the simplicity of the park and nature, the buildings and the triumphs of art, archetecture, science, and technology they represent astound me. I particularly love it on a crisp, clear night. Some day I will take some night shots so you can see it the way I do.
Then it's around famous Deadman's Curve (not the Jan and Dean one though...) and into the heart of downtown traffic.
Over the Interbelt Bridge and on your right is Jacob's Field (don't correct me - I meant to say that instead of Progressive Field. I guess I'm not that progressive!) home of our fine Cleveland Indians Baseball Team.
Off the expressway (do you say expressway, freeway, or highway where you live?!) and down a few decaying, but getting gentrified, side streets in the Tremont Area and we've arrived.
Darn- now I have to go in!
Hope you enjoyed the ride in!
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
Alignment
If you go over to flicker, there are probably some awesome ones taken with fancy cameras... but these are the view from my corner of the world, my own personal lens.
My poor son, bless his heart, has a had a rotten few days. He keeps asking me, "Why is this happening!?" I kept saying I really didn't know, sometimes things just don't go well. No matter how kind and calm you are, and how much good karma you think you're banking up, sometimes things just get out of alignment. When I heard abou the eclipse on NPR on the way home from work... it all made sense. Maybe this alignment is what put him OUT of alignment.
Monday, February 18, 2008
Love - Hate Relationship
Upon closer reflection, I have a conflicted relationship with many things I suppose:
♥ chocolate
♥ butter
♥ direct sunlight
♥ being a grown-up
♥ incredibly loud rock & roll music
♥ beer
♥ blogging
♥ driving really, really fast
♥ spending money
♥ using my beautiful handmade and patterned papers
Why do all the good things have a down side?
I want to keep my cake and eat it too!
Sunday, February 17, 2008
Wicked!
Had a delightful day today as I went downtown to Cleveland's State Theater to see Wicked!
Diversions from the original plot aside, this was a stunning stage show. The sets utilizing the clockwork were wonderful, the flying monkeys very believeable, and I've never seen so many colors of green before! The actors were superb, funny when they were supposed to be, and with such wonderful voices. Saturday, February 16, 2008
Wishes For My Sisters
Aren't we just the coolest? Gotta love those matching outfits made by mom - I've got a million of them! This post is in honor of my sisters who both had birthdays this week! To the left is the oldest of us, Diana Jean. She was born February 15th, fifty years ago. In the middle is Deborah Kay, born just 363 days later on February 13th. Then Constance Lee (me!), the littlest sister, born August 8th six years later.
Funny story there! As we gathered for Diana's surprise party Friday night in Toledo, Ohio, mom shared her favorite story about our births...
First came Diana. The hospital visit was unremarkable and all went well. As mentioned above, Deb came just short of a year later at the same hospital. When mom heard the room they were putting her in, still groggy from the anethesia she said, "Great! that's the one I had last year!" Flash forward to 1965 when I was born: you guessed it! Same hospital, same room again! The following day, the nurses came in to tell my parents that next time, if they wanted to have a boy, they should call ahead and they'd place her in a different room!
Because of the proximity to Valentine's Day, the three days would turn into a bit of a festival around our house. The photo at the bottom of the picture above was actually in the local paper celebrating the event.
Even though they are the ones with the birthdays, I thought as I gathered with them, it is I that have received the gift. My sisters are the greatest. We are all very different, but love each other very much. They have both been there for me when ever I have needed them, and I hope that they woukd say the same about me. At times when we were younger, we fought like siblings will, but no one better try to get past me to one of them!
So raise a glass and toast to my sisters! Cheers to fifty more years!
Friday, February 15, 2008
Thanks for the Beautiful Sky!
Thursday, February 14, 2008
My Funny Valentine
Since the 16th comment on my OWOH post was by Doodles over at imagine, she is my winner. Congratulations!
Monday, February 11, 2008
Artificial Trees
Sunday, February 10, 2008
Discouraged Never
People often ask me the typical questions about sorority life...
"Why do you need to buy your friends?"
"I'm not willing to conform to someone elses ideal, I'm surprised you are!"
and the ever popular
"But aren't you like, smart?"
My sisters in Chi Omega are the greatest bunch of gals I know. They are always there for me, have never asked me to change, have a wealth of knowledge in many professional areas, and provide me friendship without question. I hope that you have friendships just as strong, that will withstand time and distance.
I have kept a copy of the Symphony with me in my planner for almost 20 years now. I read it whenever I need a boost, or need to focus on where my priorities lie. The words that have the same resonance now as the day I pledged.
"Womanly always, discouraged never"
What sisterhoods or brotherhoods do you cherish?
Saturday, February 9, 2008
Polar Festival
Welcome to my Polar Queen realm! Glad you could stop by. A lot of fun is to be had in Bloglandia today if you know where to look. Yet another awesome event is being sponsored by eb over at Be... Dream... Play... a Polar Festival! Do stop by the main party page and see what it's all about, if you are arriving here from another path!
I thought for this gathering I'd share some photos with you that I took last weekend while I was out with Ian, my son the Polar Prince! It just so happened that while he was in town from college, he wanted to go the the Apple Store to purchase the computer he has been saving up for. As luck would have it, an Ice Sculpting event was being held there at Legacy Village at the same time. After he made his purchases (connie.stop.thinking.about.iphone!) we went out to take a look.
We were able to catch Aaron from Broadview Heights, Ohio's Elegant Ice Creations in the middle of creating a sculpture. What an amazing process. To start with an indiscriminant block of ice and then using a chain saw, drills, and grinders to quickly form the beautiful piece was a sight to behold. And it was completed so quickly.
My son is a sculptor, currently working with a large block of marble. He just stood there shaking his head..... "Do you know how long it takes me to do that same thing with marble? Days! After I chisel, I have to go over and over the same area with progressively finer grit to get the same effect. Although....my sculpture might still be around in a few thousand years." Well said, son!
It is kind of like when we are trying to carve ourselves into the people we want to become. If it is too easy, although pretty, the results probably won't last. One thing that is similar though, is that it can be pretty messy when the work is in process and the pieces are flying. Hard work does pay off.
The other fun thing I noticed - once the carving was done and the polishing began, do you know what tool he used? A blow torch! An apt demonstration that fire does indeed add clarity! I knew I picked a good word!
I am so very glad that I could share this with my son. He's a good boy.... and he even let his nerdy mom take his picture through the ice kids without making a fuss. We had a wonderful day together (even though it did also include the dentist - sorry son) we shared many things and he read me some of the poetry he's been working on.
We talked about how we are so much alike and the ways we are different. I am so very proud of him and the man he has become. I am always sure to tell him that I love him every time we speak, but I must remember to tell him that I'm proud of him next time too.
Anyone you need to tell how you feel?
So I'm glad you could visit me here on the North Coast. While you are here, I'd love for you to stop by my post for ONE world - ONE heart and join the give away.
Enjoy the rest of the festival!
Friday, February 8, 2008
Pigs on the Wing
Last summer we attended 'An Evening with Roger Waters' at the Rogers Centre in Toronto, Canada. What a show! If you have not ever had the opportunity to see Roger, or Pink Floyd in any of the incarnations, you really must. The music is intricate yet powerful, the lyrics are brilliant, the visuals are overwhelming and I cannot adequately describe the experience. There is one moment in that show however, that stands out for me more than any other. I'm sorry Mr. Waters, but you were not directly in that moment.
One thing that you should know about me is that I am a keeper of memories. I save the tickets to the show, I save the set list if I have one, I collect pins of the artists we see.... and I keep the confetti that rains down from above. I have beautiful large round confetti from the Rolling Stones, I have monogrammed 'Black Sabbath' Confetti from the 1999 reunion show (actaully, from all 10 shows I attended that tour), I have an entire oversized balloon ball of confetti speared by Alice Cooper's sword.
The last song before the intermission that night climaxed with a burst of confetti. Despite my best efforts, the pieces did not fall close enough to me to grab this time . I commented to my husband that I wished that I could have caught a piece to keep. A few minutes later, the young man in front of me turned around and said, "Here you go!" He had overheard me talking to John. When it came to him, he gave it to me. I never got his name.
I am reasonably certain he has forgotten about this act of kindness - but I have not. I have tried live my life creating ripples and I always marvel when they intersect with the ripples of others. Every action we take is a tile in a mosaic that builds our lives like one of those pictures within pictures. When you look closely at the part of me which represents kindness, you would see the small image of this young man. If you were to search the details of others mosaics, I hope you would see me present there as well.Thursday, February 7, 2008
Spring Cleaning
I grew up in the United Methodist Church and although my personal beliefs are not in strict adherence with them any longer, I am still drawn back to the Church's teachings at certain times of the year. Lent is one of those times. What with all the talk of who's going to which fish fry on Friday nights and who gave up chocolate or diet coke, it's kind of hard to miss it! It is a good thing to step back and take a close look at ourselves at least once a year. Although in the traditional sense, early Christians were using this period as a time of purification and preparation for baptism on Easter, a bit of Spring cleaning is always welcome regardless of your status on faith. Some folks focus on this 40 plus day stretch as a time for deprivation, but we should rather look at it as a time to practice self control. Rather than just taking things away, we can also add things which would bolster us on our journey here on Earth. I found a good link about making commitments to discipline and growth during lent from the UMC. From the prompts found there, I came up with a list of things to work on through Easter and beyond: *Take control of my life by going complaint free *Take one hour to inventory my priorities and how I plan to reorder them *Focus on thanksgiving rather than on asking in prayer *Give myself a gift of time to do something I always say I don't have time for: blogging every day *Take on a loving task: act as the Personnel Advisor for a local collegiate chapter of my sorority *Write a letter of affirmation once a week to a person who has touched my life *Focus on good, healthful habits of eating and exercise
I'll keep you posted on my progress! Is a good 'Spring cleaning' on your list?
Wednesday, February 6, 2008
Complaint Free: Day One
Well, I've done it.
Tuesday, February 5, 2008
ONE World - ONE Heart
Welcome to my place! If you are stopping here because you came from the main even page I'm so glad you found me. If perchance you are a regular reader here is what this post is all about...
Sunday, February 3, 2008
Small Is Beautiful
Saturday, February 2, 2008
Facts In Evidence
Six more weeks of winter.
I had originally intended to make this post a rant against someone I thought was a despicable scoundrel, the groundhog known as Punxsutawney Phil. The callous way he threw around predictions of weather, taunting us with promises of an early Spring when it never seemed to come, just a terrible way to treat those of us who looked to him for guidance and hope. His disrespect and lack of judgment were more than I could accept.
That was until I got my hands on the following..... (don't ask me where I got it - I can't tell you the details)
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CLASSIFIED HOMELAND SECURITY WIRETAP TRANSCRIPTS
DATELINE: FEBRUARY 1, 2008
IDENTIFIED SPEAKERS:
PARTY #1: PUNXSUTAWNEY PHIL, GOBBLERS KNOB, PA
PARTY #2: BRITNEY SPEARS, UNNAMED PSYCHIATRIC HOSPITAL, LOS ANGELES, CA
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INITIATE TAPE
ring tone sound
PARTY#1: Brit - are you there? I just can't take the pressure anymore!
PARTY#2: I'm so worried about you! You've got to chill out ya'll!
pause
PARTY#1: They just keep hounding me. They follow me everywhere I go. I'm dreading tomorrow.
PARTY#2: Oh Punx, I know what you mean... At least you've got your people to help you with that.
PARTY#1: My people? "Inner Circle" my sainted aunt... I have no idea where all those guys in the top hats came from. One day I just looked up when I popped out of the burrow and they were there! I can't shake them! At least Elvis knew those Memphis Mafia guys!
PARTY#2: But they're there to help you.... "don't worry we'll speak for you," and all that! Certainly makes it easier huh?
PARTY#1: Oh sure! They thought they were being hilarious when they said I made that crack about my burrow being "more tidy than Saddam Hussein's spider hole," Like I was ever actually AT his spider hole, they never let me go anywhere! But ever since then, I swear I'm being listened to. Maybe by Homeland Security.
PARTY#2: Oh come on ya'll - that's off the hook!
PARTY#1: You say that, but the CIA had a file on John Lennon...
PARTY#2: Well. maybe.
sounds of pacing, possibly 4 paws
PARTY#1: I thought maybe I was gonna get some good press and truth when they made the movie, but talk about an unauthorized biography... it wasn't even about me! That guy Bill Murray was on screen for way more time than me. So were the stupid "inner circle" for that matter!
PARTY#2: Yeah. My people talk me into all kinds of things....
PARTY#1: Don't get me started. I even ended up in space! Three times! "Chucknik Spacecraft" ...What was I thinking! I'm a groundhog for pity's sake!
PARTY#2: Don't be so hard on yourself ya'll! You trust them! You've got to trust them. That's why I'm glad I've got my momma around.
PARTY#1: Um, we need to talk about that soon Brit, but right now try to focus on me!
PARTY#2: Oh yeah, right! I'm sorry ya'll.
PARTY#1: I'm really seriously starting to worry about the so called 'special elixir' they keep giving me. Did you know that I'm 120? I don't get to talk to other groundhogs very often, but I accidentally overheard a conversation that makes me think that's not "normal." What might it be doing to me?
PARTY#2: They wouldn't give you drugs to take or alcohol to drink if they didn't think it was good for you! Remember - you have to trust them!
PARTY#1: ...and most importantly, why do people believe that I can control the weather? I'm not a god! I do not even have a degree in meteorology!
PARTY#2: What would knowing about rocks from space have to do with anything? Besides - you just said you were up there, didn't you learn anything about meteors?
PARTY#1: I'm not sure you're following me Brit.....
crackling sounds - unidentifiable
PARTY#1: The power is kind of cool though.... There was that time during prohibition when I threatened that if they didn't give me a drink I'd cause 60 weeks of winter; That was pretty good!
PARTY#2: Yeah, that would have been cool. Make them give me a drink tomorrow, I could really use one in here! Only make it like 60 million weeks so they really do it.
PARTY#1: I can't believe that the American public actually think I talk to the inner circle in groundhog-ese or some nonsense, and tell them when Spring is coming...... I'm supposed to be hibernating - did you know that? Sleeping! Why don't they just leave me alone! Why don't they just leave us both alone!
sound of bottle opening - liquid pouring
PARTY#2: But you do get to meet people other folks don't know - that can be good!
PARTY#1: Yeah, I got to meet President Ronald Reagan and Oprah Winfrey.
PARTY#2: Oprah seems cool - but don't even get me started on Doctor Phil ya'll!
PARTY#1: And another thing! They never seem to catch my good side on TV. Did you see how huge they made me look when they put me up on the JumboTron in Times Square back in 2001?
PARTY#2: Yeah, we really should have talked before I did that last awards thing. I know you would have warned me.
PARTY#1: People are just cruel Brit.... Them making you wear that outfit reminded me of the time they made me wear the terrible towel for the Pittsburg Steelers. The photos on that one are still circulating.
quiet sobbing - both ends of line
PARTY#1: Then there are the wanna-bes... Buckeye Chuck ... what a joke! Like any other groundhog could predict the weather. I can't even predict the weather! I know you're with me on that one! Just because someone is blonde and cute and can kind of sing they say she's the next Britney! What a joke!
PARTY#2: Yeah. Sometimes they don't even have to actually sing - just act a mess and forget their panties one day.... I don't get it. It's sad.
pause
PARTY#1: Have you seen the merchandise? You can get groundhog cookie cutters, t-shirts, Mardi Gras beads, even a foam top hat like my inner circle guys wear.... They even made a Ty Beanie Baby to look like me. I mean that's okay - but they put one of those god awful hats on it. And a bow tie? I hate those things. And the money? I get none of it. Oh wait - they use it to buy the elixir and the food they give me. I should be thankful right? How about a trip to Las Vegas? Or maybe just a ride in the car sometime?
PARTY#2: I'll drive you! You can sit on my lap! We'll roll baby!
PARTY#1: I don't think they'll let you do that anymore Brit....
PARTY:#2 Yeah ya'll, you're probably right.
PARTY#1: Besides if I went to Vegas I might start whistling or something, and the paparazzi would be all over that.
PARTY#2: That's why you just marry someone while you're there - then it's cool.
PARTY#1: Might not be a bad idea.
pause
PARTY#2: Will Punx, I got to go, they only let me talk on the phone a little bit here ya know! I just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you. Keep your chin up and don't even fret about all the cameras they're gonna stick in your face!
PARTY#1: Thanks Brit - it's really nice to know someone cares how I feel about all of this. Say hello to Sean Preston and JJ for me when you talk to them next.
PARTY#2: Oh! That's so sweet. I will. Oh and be sure to make Spring be here tomorrow okay ya'll?! Do it for me! They said I might be out by Spring!
click
PARTY#1: Have you been listening to anything I said?
deep sigh
END TAPE
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For more information on the exploitation of my friend Phil, I mean "fun facts about groundhog day" visit groundhog.org
I lifted his picture from there too. It was probably taken by some thoughtless paparazzi and traded for filthy lucre (wink)
(I'm hoping Phil will forgive my past harsh words once I apologize to him...and Britney too)
Friday, February 1, 2008
Seeing Red
"Go Red For Women is a movement passionately dedicated to helping women fight back against heart disease, the No. 1 killer of women in America. By putting our passion together with positive action, we can continue to educate other women about their risks and help them find their own personal path to better health for life." - from goredforwomen.org
Friday, February 1st is "Go Red For Women" Day.
Did you know that heart disease is the number one killer of women in America? Taking nothing away from the support we give other worthy women's causes like breast cancer and domestic violence, finding out about your cardiovascular health is something that can have a huge impact on your future. We may have the power to save our own lives.
I know that I need to pay more attention to this. My mom is a healthy 77 year old, but she lost many family members to heart disease and stroke, many before the age of 55: her father, sisters and brothers, and nieces and nephews. High cholesterol and high blood pressure are common on my mother's side of the family. Um..... I'm a part of my mother's side of the family right?
Here is a secret: my total cholesterol level is over 260. I have not been back to the doctor to have it checked again since I found out two years ago. This is a BAD thing. It is not in keeping with my plan for better living. I will note that my blood pressure is in the low to normal range... for now. I also am carrying around an extra fifty pounds and do not get enough exercise. This behavior must stop now. Feel free to call me out and remind me I said this.
I would ask you to stop by the website above and take the "Go Red Heart Check Up", Check out the "Choose To Move" section which features exercise tips, look for some healthy recipes, and read the personal stories there. Maybe you could even share your own story.
If you don't get to the site - at least read the questions below copied from there, and think about whether or not you know the answers. Most importantly what it might mean for you and your family if you don't.
Cholesterol
*What is my total cholesterol level?
*What is my triglyceride level?
*What are my HDL (“good”) and LDL (“bad”) levels?
*What is cholesterol and how may it affect my health?
*What is a healthy cholesterol level?
*How often should I have my cholesterol checked?
High Blood Pressure
*What is my blood pressure?
*What is my systolic number?
*What is my diastolic number?
*What is high blood pressure and how may it affect my health?
*How often should I have my blood pressure checked?
Obesity and Body Mass Index
*What is my weight?
*What is my height?
*What is my Body Mass Index (BMI)?
*What BMI range is healthy for me?
*At what weight would I be considered overweight? Obese?
Smoking
*How can I quit smoking?
*How can I avoid gaining weight after I quit smoking?
Diabetes
*What is my fasting blood glucose (sugar)?
*What is diabetes and how may it affect my heart health?
*Diabetes runs in my family. How can I prevent it?
*I have diabetes. How can I control it?
*I have diabetes, and I know that increases my risk of heart disease and stroke. Should I be on medication(s) to help lower or manage my risks?
I like reading your blogs, and I like that you come visit mine. If you're gone it just won't be the same without you.
GO RED!









